Because this is how God see’s maturity.

Okay be prepared cause this is a RANT. This ain’t sweet,nice or pleasant to some, but it’s the truth and it’s piling up inside of me. I just need to LET IT OUT. K THANKS.

I’m tired of this wordly mentality and thinking that your “IMMATURE” just because You don’t wanna go out there and date around with everybody out there or party and have flings and blah blah blah.

I think that’s pretty much messed up. I’m disappointed that that’s how most teens or people see it that way. You may not notice that you are but you might be judging that way too even if you’re a christian. I just can’t stand that anymore.

 Probably, in God’s opinion certainly He think that being mature is learning to wait and having self control over your emotions not to do stupid things that causes one to sin, but that’s not the perspective of many. They look on you like your still a kid, innocent, not ready and all that non sense thinking..  I n the world’s way of thinking.. if you have the most experience with boys and getting dumped and having tons of relationships that to them is “MATURE” when infact what they’re doing wasn’t actually mature at all..

God’s path:
it’s always  patient, slow, being self controlled and in the end your happier and more pleased with His way.. it’s always ends it much more pleasure and joy when you just learn to wait and not go for the first thing you see just cause it’s going to make you happy for a time being..
World’s path:
it’s always about Instant Gratification, Impatient,  trying to always get ahead of everyone. You want everything on the spot.. for sure you’d be happy for a while but the later on there will be consequences because of always rushing and never learning to wait as they say “good things come to those wait”
Example.. the latest iPhone 10? Haha.. came out and you just had to have it..
you kept bugging your parents because you wanted to be the first to have it. So they got it for you. And you where the first, but after a time being the latest iPhone 11 came out with 1000000x better features and it’s faster and it might has a refrigerator in it too! and your doesn’t! But since you couldn’t wait.. for the better features your stuck now with your old iPhone10 with no refrigerator in it :( boo. HAHAHAHA

I noticed is that when, example you’ve met new friends your getting close to and they don’t have any clue about you all they know is your single and your not into anyone and don’t much about boys they instantly think “Awww your so cute and innocent. Your not ready yet for us to spill all our knowledge of boys to…” something like that? and all that non sense, but If once they did find out you did actually have experience with opposite sex they’ll start treating you differently like a mature person and being amazed about all the stuff you did and all the pain you went through because you did stupid stuff and they think that’s mature.
Than one who’s never had to go through the pain for some boy or girl they never where going to end up in the first place and just wasted their time one! That who their mind is set on the future and waiting not instant gratification and is self controlled. I applaud that person because that isn’t something most teens can’t acquire to do anymore.
 Psalm 37:7-9 Rest in the LORD and wait patiently for Him; Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, Because of the man who carries out wicked schemes. 8 Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret, it leads only to evildoing. 9 For evildoers will be cut off, But those who wait for the LORD, they will inherit the land.
I know it’s like I’m focusing all about dating but it’s more to that as well..  it’s not just about dating it can be about anything even jobs or opportunities. And yes no one’s perfect but I just can’t stand this mentality of what people or I say teens? See to them as mature and what’s immature. Because that’s not how God see’s it at all.

I don’t care if you disagree.